Changing the Experience of Divorce
Divorce Coach Vancouver – Professionally guided divorce and career transition coaching for a BETTER divorce and a BRIGHT new future ahead!
BOOK A FREE DISCOVERY CALL TODAY WITH
CERTIFIED DIVORCE COACH VANCOUVER, CINDY STIBBARD
WHAT I CAN DO FOR YOU
Let’s face it. Divorce is never pretty. And never easy. Especially when kids are involved.
Any parent worthy of the name is riddled with guilt. And confusion … anxiety, fear and an array of other emotions. It’s only natural to feel that way and to want to protect your innocent children from hurt, anger and long-term emotional scars.
I will also help you communicate in a more effective way with your spouse when it comes to all matters involving the children so that their needs are put first
Changing the experience of divorce starts by building resilience and promoting emotional healing through the divorce process.
As your divorce coach, I meet you right where you are at in your process, hearing your needs, supporting your voice and helping you understand and discover your unique wants, needs and goals to create a plan for your new future.
We all have places in our life where we are blocked.
Working together, we will identify those emotional blocks and find ways for you alone, or as a parent going through divorce with kids, to overcome them and move forward toward your goals. I help you manage tough emotions in such a way that you are able to come to meetings and make agreements more rationally.
Divorce is stressful. Money is stressful.
Working with me will typically cost less than relying on a lawyer alone to provide you all of the non-legal support you will also need in this process. If you've hired a lawyer, you might expect him/her to handle every facet of your divorce, but that's often unrealistic. It also puts substantial pressure on them to provide you all of this added support, which costs them time and you money. A lawyer is an expert in the legal aspect—the court dates, the filings and negotiating the agreement on your behalf. With all the other issues involved, and while you can turn to your lawyer about those things, they will likely want to refer you to other professionals better support you.
I can help you stay calm and centered, feel supported, think rationally and learn valuable communication skills to handle co-parenting communications, email exchanges, texting and telephone conversations, in ways that allow your best self to shine. Life is full of opportunities, and it is my job to provide divorce support so you can figure out which opportunities to take advantage of in order to live the life you want.
Also as a Career & Transition coach I will help you through the process of self-discovery so that you can make the best possible decisions for your future based on your interests, needs and concerns.
I will bring resources, contacts, assessments, and opportunity ideas to your attention that will support your future goals. I will help educate you about the lay of the land (divorce, job search, business development, etc.)
WHO I AM
Cindy Stibbard - Divorce Coach Vancouver
BA, BEd, CDC®, CDS® CHCC™, ABA
CEO of Divorce ReDefined
CDC® Certified Divorce & Transition Coach
CDS® Certified Divorce Specialist
CHCC™ Chartered Career Coach
Member of the American Bar Association (ABA)
Member of the National Association of Divorce Professionals (NADP)
I’m so glad you are here…
Going through divorce myself was an incredibly overwhelming, stressful and emotionally excruciating experience. Yet I grew so much on my journey that I feel compelled to help others through the process and support them with finding their own path to a better divorce and a brighter future. You are not alone!
Support for the Journey
My goal is to help you re-imagine your life. With extensive experience in Divorce, Career & Life Transition Coaching and a history of client success, my individualized positivity and focused approach will help you attain your goals, and together we will navigate the turbulent waters of divorce to calmer seas ahead.
Professionalism and Experience
As a CDC and CHCC professionally trained and experienced Certified Divorce & Career Coach, I have the tools and understanding to help you to create the life you imagine and get a renewed sense of yourself and what you want for your future. CDC Coaches are professionally recognized by the ICF (International Coaching Federation) and the ABA (American Bar Association).
BOOK A FREE DISCOVERY CALL TODAY WITH
CERTIFIED DIVORCE COACH VANCOUVER, CINDY STIBBARD
WHAT I DO
As a Certified Divorce Coach Vancouver I help you with pre-, during and post- divorce support depending on your unique situation and current needs in the divorce process.
I can assist you with avoiding procrastination and other roadblocks that are in the way in of making important life decisions and enable and empower you to move forward in the best way possible.
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Family Lawyers and Mediators are increasingly recognizing how Divorce Coaches can benefit their clients in many areas from emotion and communication to organization of documents to understanding of the process.
Divorce is already financially stressful as it is, working with me will get you to the other side of divorce in an efficient and much more cost effective way so that you can start your new life with vision, clarity and financial peace of mind.
The beauty of working with me as your Divorce Coach is that YOU can choose the divorce support that YOU want and need help with. I am your advocate and quarterback through it all and beyond.
My role is to get you through and beyond divorce successfully without unnecessary harm, without stoking adversarial fires and without putting your children’s childhood at jeopardy.
Let’s ReDefine your experience of divorce together.
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WHY WORK WITH ME
Considering Divorce
Considering the BIG questions:
Do I work on my marriage
OR
Do I separate or divorce?
How do I know?
Discovering divorce support starting with finding resources, strategies to implement into your relationship and educating and informing you of what your options are at the stage you are at
Assessing your personal/couples/family counseling/lawyers family court needs
Exploring what divorce may look like for you and your family.
Discuss the impacts of divorce on your children at developmental stages and how to protect them from conflict
Preparing you and helping to manage your expectations about what the journey of divorce looks like
Navigating the Divorce Process
Organized divorce help with gathering and organizing personal and financial information
Compiling all necessary documents in one place for easily accessible and efficient use by your counsel and any other advisors
Understanding the different types of divorce support when divorce is imminent ranging from simple to more complex: collaborative, mediation, arbitration, litigation and court
Building your personal support system
Working through the personal and financial needs and concerns for you and your children
Clarifying thoughts and concerns that encourage sound and sensible decision making
Managing tough emotions, triggers and “hot buttons” that arise and impede and block the process
Thinking and communicating from a place of rationality and dignity rather than from heightened emotion
Setting up a co-parenting plan that is sensible and fair with the best interests of the children first
Strategies for effectively and appropriately communicating with your children though the process
Setting reasonable and fair goals for your settlement by encouraging compassion, empathy, cooperation and amicable cooperative or parallel co-parenting for the long term
Selecting an appropriate team of vetted professionals: legal representation, financial (CFDA) and parenting support who align with you goals
Life After Divorce
Establishing a vision for the future setting both short- and long-term goals and a plan to reach them
Preparing you to re-enter the workforce or pivot your current career
Preparing you for career transition or re-entering the workforce.
Support with job skills: making connections, resume writing, job hunting, interview preparation, follow ups and re-entering the workforce
Serving as your voice of experience since I have been through the divorce process myself and can share both the positives and negatives of my experience that may resonate with you
Empowering you to live your best life on this new path
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